Here’s what’s in my current rotation (and why each one is non-negotiable).

1. A Hydrating Balm That Doesn’t Play

This is the one that lives in my coat pocket, my bedside drawer, and my bathroom shelf. When my lips feel dry or cracked, this comes through like a real one. Hydration is self-respect — especially in winter.

Mario Badescu Lip Balm

2. My Signature Gloss

You know the one. That juicy, high-shine, “who is she?” gloss that always hits right in selfies. It’s the product I wear when I want to look like I tried without actually trying. Sometimes it’s one from my own brand (because obviously) — and sometimes it’s a new find that has me in a chokehold. Either way, gloss is a mindset: soft, magnetic, and completely unbothered.

Nekid Hydrating Lip Gloss – Cyrena Monique Beauty

3. A Bold Lipstick for When I Mean Business

There’s something about putting on a bold lip that changes the entire tone of the day. It says: “Yes, I’m here. Yes, I’m that girl. No, I don’t need your validation.” Red, berry, deep plum — whatever makes you feel powerful, wear that.

Cherry Deluxe Liquid Matte Lipstick Duo – Cyrena Monique Beauty

4. A Lip Liner That Pulls It All Together

She’s the quiet one in the crew — the unsung hero. A good liner keeps things defined and polished. Plus, if I’m ever caught out, I can use it with a bit of balm to create a whole look in 30 seconds flat.

Refy Lip Sculpt

Why It’s Deeper Than Beauty

Every time I reapply my lip gloss, it’s a reminder: I’m allowed to take up space. I’m allowed to feel good. I’m allowed to have moments of softness in a world that sometimes demands hardness.

So yes, I carry lip products like my life depends on them — because in a way, my vibe does.

Want a gloss that aligns with your glow?

The IKTR Starter Pack isn’t just a vibe — it’s your first step into alignment. Think affirmations, rituals, and reminders that you’re that girl — with or without the lip gloss (but preferably with).